Author : Vanshika Anand
Being in demand is one of the important things on which success depends. It does not matter how much hard work you do or invest time in improving yourself till you know how to be in demand. If you are fed up with the negligence you face just read out these points and know the art of converting yourself from a1. Are you a trouble shooter?In today's cut throat competition everybody is obsessed with the tensions, worries and conflicts emerging from different sides. In such circumstances a person is in the need of surrounding himself with trouble shooter not a trouble creator.Trouble shooter is a person who not only knows what his problem is but acts very smartly to sooth his tensed nerves by providing him the best solution .Trouble creator is a person who may be having the knowledge of the troubles faced by the other person but does not bother to think or understand them and keeps himself busy in talking about his. He doubles the problems by mixing his and other person's problems. Such a person focuses his concentration in criticising others instead of finding out the solutions of the other persons and his problems and solving them.Due to this tendency trouble creator is not liked how close he may be. Find out what you are. A trouble shooter or a trouble creator2. Are you having a impressive personality? A person having a good physics is considered to be the proud owner of the impressive personality. But this conception is wrong. An impressive personality is a personality based on the positive strengths of both outer and inner personality. If any of these two is weak a person can not be expected to impress others for long. Take an example to understand it more clearly. A secretary having a good outer personality may attract for sometime but soon will be disliked if she is not do office work efficiently. Similarly people may get spellbound after having a glimpse of your impressive outer personality but soon will come out of it when they come to know about your weak inner personality. Now start analysing which kind of personality you have. Remember to be in demand forever you must posses both.3. Can you convince people?Arguing whether for a right thing or a wrong one is always disliked, and a person who indulges in argument is avoided. So instead of arguing with people it is necessary to know the art of convincing them. In spite of winning a person in arguments tell him the plus points or the negative points he will get and try to mould the conversation in such a way that he is convinced and is ready to do or not to do a particular thing. It will not help to get the work done but also help to win praise from all sides. Now check out if you argue with people or convince them.4. Do you know flattering?Whether people accept or not they like to be flattered. From an immature child to a mature person all are fond of flattery. People who know the art of buttering people get their work done easily. It is different thing that an unwise or excessive flattery may put people in trouble anytime. So the person who uses wisdom in doing flattery has more chances of winning. Now it is time to look at you and know if you are capable of a wise flattery.5. Have Your Sweetness in Your Voice?Winning the heart of a person depends on the quality of sweetness in your voice. The more sweet your voice is the more chances are there for you to win. Not only the children but also adults get spell-bound by sweet voice.Famous Indian Writer and Teacher
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